Babylou Pasol Juloya, a nursing aide who joined The Red Cross Home for the Disabled (RCHD) in June 2019, speaks about her fulfilling experiences caring for others, contextualising the commemoration of Nurses’ Day and the grateful recognition of every nurse’s labour of love.

Nursing as a Calling 

Despite the long hours associated with the nursing profession, dedicated nurses persevere with fortitude and an indomitable spirit, spurred by the incentive of making a positive impact. Their love and compassion establish profound connections with the individuals they care for.

Babylou Pasol Juloya joined the Red Cross Home for the Disabled (RCHD) as a nursing aide in June 2019.

"As I have always yearned to help and make a positive impact on others, I was excited to be a part of a team that provides specialised care to individuals with unique needs. Nursing enables me to provide care and support to our residents. I find it very fulfilling to contribute to someone’s well-being,” said Babylou. 

Babylou's passion for caregiving knows no bounds. Her experience working in the healthcare sector had equipped with the capabilities and competence as a self-motivated nursing aide who consistently inspires us. 

Providing Unwavering Support and Care 

As a nursing aide, Babylou assists residents with daily activities like showering, eating and dressing. She also helps them walk, and ensures they get the right medications in the right doses at the right times. 

Amid these routine daily tasks lays the groundwork for the pure, unadulterated, heartfelt bond between the caregiver and resident. Each day brings with it countless opportunities to provide a listening ear to the residents while offering emotional support and keeping them company. 

Navigating the Challenges

Yet, nursing is not without its hurdles. Babylou shared it was a challenge juggling and meeting the needs of the residents, each with their unique physical abilities and emotional temperaments. 

“Working with persons with disabilities has been a humbling and enriching experience. It requires patience, empathy and a deep commitment to understand and support their needs,” said Babylou. 

She asserted that teamwork and collaboration are keys to providing optimal care. Open communication and mutual support between nursing aides, nurses and other colleagues aid such collaborative efforts. 

Fulfilling Moments 

Evidently, Babylou derives great satisfaction and fulfilment from witnessing the residents' radiant smiles and joyful laughter.

“During their birthday celebrations, giving them small presents or a simple cake made them realise that they are loved. These moments remind us of the importance of being with them during their special days,” Babylou recounted. 

Unlike some other careers, nursing is not a robotic, competitive and heartless race to the top. Neither is it a scramble to maximise customer satisfaction. It is a unique profession that prioritises humanity and underscores the importance of the little things in life. 

“It is most rewarding when a resident expresses their gratitude for the care we provide. These moments highlight the importance of creating a positive and engaging environment for them. Knowing that I have made a positive difference in someone’s life, even in a small way, brings a deep sense of fulfilment,” said Babylou. 

Home is Where The Heart Lies

Hailing from the Philippines, Babylou made the painful decision to leave her family and friends behind. This decision was made even more challenging considering her parents were ageing. However, she is content with the knowledge that she can provide for her family back home, while making a meaningful difference in the lives of the residents here in Singapore. 

However, our heart goes out to Babylou as she had to manage her grief at her father’s demise recently. She shared that it was a very challenging period for her. What was especially depressing was that she could not be there for her father, even in his last breath. 

She still misses the rest of her friends and family in the Philippines, particularly as her mother is the only person left at home. 

“When I miss them, I stay connected through video calls and messages. Talking to my mother and hearing her voice brings me comfort. I also look at the photos and reminisce about the good times we had together. Additionally, I find solace in my work, knowing that I am helping others and contributing to their well-being. This gives me strength, hope and a sense of purpose,” said Babylou. 

Happy Nurses’ Day!

Reflecting on the years working at the RCHD, Babylou has forged emotional connections and heartwarming moments with the residents while illuminating and uplifting their lives.

"Working at the RCHD enables me to provide care, making positive contributions to the lives of individuals who need care and support.  It is a very rewarding experience that brings personal growth and fulfilment." 

She looks forward to serving at the RCHD for many more years to come.

In commemoration of Nurses Day, she has this message for all the other nurses, “Thank you for your unwavering dedication, compassion, and hard work. Your commitment to caring for others, often in the most challenging circumstances, is truly inspiring. Happy Nurses’ Day to each and every one of you. Your contributions are invaluable, and you make a difference daily.” 

Written by Krishiv Kukreja, Volunteer Writer
Copyedited by Foo Ming Yee, Volunteer